I received the below letter, which I am posting here anonymously with the permission of the author. It is because of situations like this that I think it is so important to teach the truth about your G-d-given right to protect yourself.
Dear Rabbi Bendory,
I just read your article from the NJJN dated June 15, 2011. I wanted to thank you. I am an Episcopal priest in Somewhere, USA and have had a stalker. He first began stalking me a few years ago, but was sent to federal prison on a different felony conviction. He got out recently after serving a full sentence. He has begun stalking me again. I found out from his former parole officer that he has also committed rape and is very dangerous. The police said that a gun would be a good thing for me to have. I was very reluctant to do so. I am one of those mothers who would not let her children use sticks and pretend they were guns. After much thought, prayer and talking with other law enforcement I decided to get a gun. I have begun Weapons and Tactics classes and have discovered to my surprise that I am a good aim. It has been very difficult to deal with the idea of taking a life and the article has helped me grapple with the theological aspect of self defense.
Thank you - and many blessings on your work,
Reverend Jane Doe
Rector, Church of Somewhere
